Women have a sexual side, and it's okay to embrace it. Women are allowed to enjoy sex, and women are allowed to enjoy
sexual items for females. They're not mutually exclusive. If you're a woman who wants to feel the pleasure of an orgasm (or multiple orgasms)—and what woman doesn't?—then using toys is perfectly natural and healthy.The only reason why you should be ashamed of using sex toys is if you feel shame about being sexually active in general, which is something that deserves its own conversation!